The "I AM" Blog

The Link Between Self-Worth and Decision-Making
Self-worth and decision-making are closely connected, even when you do not notice it. The way you see yourself influences what you believe you deserve. That belief then filters into your choices about relationships, work, boundaries, and opportunities. When your self-worth...
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What It Really Means to Become Who You Are
You spend so much energy trying to figure out who you should be that you forget to ask who you already are. Under all the expectations, the performances, the versions of yourself you've crafted to fit different situations, there's someone...
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What Happens When You Stop Earning Love
Many people grow up believing love has to be earned, especially in close relationships, when your self-worth has been shaped by experiences where love felt conditional. You learned early that being good, helpful, or pleasing was the price of admission....
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