The "I AM" Blog

Children are naturally intuitive about their comfort levels, but they're also taught to be polite, obedient, and accommodating. Sometimes these lessons conflict with their natural instincts about safety and comfort. Boundary education helps children learn that they can be kind...
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It’s hard to speak up when you’re still figuring out what feels okay to you. You might laugh things off, stay quiet when something crosses a line, or go along with things just to avoid awkward moments. But just because...
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A lot of men don’t talk about limits. They carry more than they admit, give more than they’re comfortable with, and stay quiet in situations that should’ve been addressed long ago. The idea of “handling it” often becomes a cover...
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There are days when you say yes out of habit. You take on extra work. You stay in conversations that drain you. You smile and nod when something clearly crosses a line. Maybe you’ve been taught that saying no feels...
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Think of boundaries like the fence around your house. They don't keep people out completely, but they determine who gets to come in and under what conditions. Some people earn the right to your front door, others might only get...
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