Leadership Journaling Prompts for Young Girls

Leadership starts long before anyone hands you a title. For young girls, it often shows up in small moments: speaking up in class, standing up for a friend, or deciding what’s right even when it’s not the popular choice. And while grown-ups tend to focus on big goals or long-term plans, leadership for girls often means sorting through what feels right right now.

Writing can help with that. A notebook can be a space to figure things out—to ask questions, admit confusion, and celebrate small wins that others might not notice. These prompts are made specifically for girls who are learning how to trust their voice and find steady ground in everyday choices. 

Leadership Journaling Prompts for Young Girls

1. When have I done something brave, even if I was nervous?
   Write about a time you did something hard or stood up for someone. What helped you do it?

2. What kind of leader do I want to be with my friends?
   Think about how you treat others, how you handle problems, and what kind of friend you want to be.

3. How do I act when I’m in charge of a group or project?
   Do you like to plan everything? Listen to ideas? Solve problems? What do you enjoy most?

4. What makes someone a leader to me?
   Think about people you admire. What do they do that makes you look up to them?

5. When is it hard for me to speak up—and why?
   Write honestly. Is it fear of being wrong? Being laughed at? What would help?

6. How do I make others feel heard when they talk to me?
   Think about listening, asking questions, and making space for others to share.

7. Have I ever changed my mind because I learned something new?
   Write about a time you grew from listening, even if you didn’t agree at first.

8. What do I do when I make a mistake as a leader?
   It could be something small or big. How do you fix it? What do you say to yourself?

9. What does it mean to lead without being the boss?
   Think about times you helped, supported, or guided without being in charge.

10. What kind of leader do I want to be when I grow up—and what can I practice now?
    Imagine the kind of leader you admire. What are small things you can do now to start showing that?

The goal isn't to turn every girl into a traditional leader who commands from the front. Instead, it's helping each girl recognize her unique leadership gifts and develop the confidence to use them when situations call for positive influence and change.

Through thoughtful reflection and supportive environments, young girls can develop leadership skills that serve them throughout their lives while maintaining the authenticity and collaborative spirit that makes their leadership so valuable to the world.