Nov 28, 2024

How the Right People Can Shape Your Dreams

Ever had a conversation that left you buzzing with excitement, thinking of all the things you could accomplish? And then there are those other conversations—the ones that leave you feeling small, second-guessing your dreams. I’ve been there. It’s fascinating how the people we talk to can either push us to dream bigger or unknowingly drain our energy. Lately, I’ve realized just how important it is to be selective about the energy we allow into our lives.

The Energy People Bring

Some conversations feel like a spark—encouraging you to think bigger, explore new ideas, and take steps toward your goals. These are the people who listen and respond with optimism and thoughtful advice. They don’t just tell you what you want to hear; they challenge you in a way that makes you grow.

On the flip side, there are those interactions that feel more like roadblocks. It’s not always intentional, but sometimes people bring their own doubts, fears, or negativity into your space. They ask questions like, “Are you sure that’s realistic?” or “What if it doesn’t work out?” Instead of fueling your momentum, these conversations can leave you questioning everything.

I’ve learned that while it’s okay to hear differing opinions, I have to be careful with how much weight I give to energy that drains me.

Why Clarity Makes All the Difference

The more I focus on clarity, the easier it is to make decisions that feel right. To me, clarity isn’t about having everything figured out. It’s more about knowing what’s important and staying true to it. When you surround yourself with people who support your vision, it becomes easier to stay aligned with your goals.

I used to think every opinion mattered, but now I realize that’s not true. What really matters is staying connected to my own values and surrounding myself with people who build me up.

Related: The Guided Clarity Journal

How I Learned to Choose Wisely

A few years ago, I shared an ambitious idea with two people. The first person responded with excitement, asking thoughtful questions and suggesting ways to start small but stay consistent. Their encouragement gave me a sense of direction and confidence.

The second person, however, responded with skepticism: “That sounds risky. What if it doesn’t work?” I left that conversation feeling uncertain and stuck. It wasn’t until later that I realized how much power I was giving to someone else’s fears.

That’s when I decided to be more intentional about who I opened up to. It’s not cutting people off but knowing whose energy aligns with where you want to go.

For me, choosing who I spend my time with has made all the difference. Conversations have the power to inspire or discourage, so I remind myself to lean toward the ones that fuel my ambitions.

I also try to be that spark for others. If I can leave someone feeling excited about their dreams, that’s a win in my book. After all, life feels so much lighter when we lift each other up.

So, here’s my reminder: Some people will make you dream bigger after just one conversation, while others might leave you questioning your path. Pay attention to how people make you feel, and don’t be afraid to protect your energy. With the right connections and a clear mind, you’ll be better equipped to turn your aspirations into reality.